Navigating the Uncharted
Lessons in Resilience, Culture, and Leadership
I've come to realize that the journey of entrepreneurship is much like navigating uncharted waters. You may have a map and compass, but the seas are unpredictable, and the winds of change can knock you off course in an instant. In this chapter, I’ll share my experiences navigating two pivotal aspects of business that have profoundly shaped my journey: the delicate interplay of culture and politics and the art of overcoming unforeseen challenges while building a strong, resilient team.
The Delicate Dance of Culture and Politics
When I first launched IYLIA, I believed that a great product and a solid business plan would be enough to succeed. How wrong I was! In business, especially as a woman entrepreneur, culture and politics play enormous roles in how you're received and perceived.
One of my most memorable experiences came from launching and pivoting our collection, which, as our tagline states, is "Designed in New York, Made in Spain." Initially, I was thrilled about this collaboration—a blend of New York’s cutting-edge style with Spain’s rich craftsmanship. However, navigating the cultural nuances between these two worlds turned out to be far more complex than I had anticipated.
In New York, fast-paced decision-making and direct communication are embraced, while in Spain, our partners value relationship-building and consensus before moving forward. This cultural mismatch led to misunderstandings and delays that could have been avoided had I been more attuned to these differences from the start.
Despite extensive, intense travel and 25 years working abroad—in Asia, across Europe, and throughout Latin America—I’ve found that leading a company as a woman CEO brings unique challenges. It’s one thing to visit a place or represent a larger brand (as an employee with an impressive title) and quite another to be the sole decision-maker and owner, especially in an industry where leadership is typically male-dominated and in countries with limited cultural or racial diversity.
There have been times when I found it simpler to ask male colleagues to take the lead in certain situations, especially where I’ve felt cultural biases might come into play. Sometimes people cannot grasp the idea of a woman—at the helm of a business, and these situations can quickly become unnecessarily complicated. In these cases, I’ll ask the men who work for me to step in. By doing so, I don’t relinquish control; rather, we develop a plan, I monitor the situation, and I step in when needed.
I’ve moved beyond wondering why these barriers exist or feeling the need to prove myself as the CEO. Now, I focus on getting the job done as efficiently as possible.
*Lesson learned*: Success in global business requires more than a great product; it demands cultural intelligence and political savvy.
Weathering the Storm: Unforeseen Challenges and Curating a Sounding Board
If there’s one thing I’ve learned as an entrepreneur, it’s that the unexpected will happen—and sometimes, you don’t know what you don’t know. This realization has been both humbling and empowering.
As a self-proclaimed Type A personality, I take pride in meticulous planning. But entrepreneurship demands flexibility—period. Over the past decade, I’ve encountered countless situations that no amount of preparation could have anticipated. From supply chain disruptions to facilities unexpectedly altering production standards or business partnerships, to freight forwarders losing merchandise at sea for months—each challenge disrupted forecasted plans and required continual course corrections.
In those moments of crisis, I learned the true value of having a strong support network—my family. Together, we brainstormed solutions, leveraged networks, and worked around the clock to keep everything on track. They held me together during the most challenging times, helping me stay the course. In building this brand, I’ve truly come to understand the saying, "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
Riding the Waves of Uncertainty
As days turned into months and months into years, each crisis became not only a test of our logistical capabilities at IYLIA but also a test of our foundation as a company and brand. In these moments, I learned another of the most valuable lessons of my career and life: the strength of both a person and a business lies not in their plans but in their resilience—and in the ‘company you keep’ around you. Full stop.
I’ve sat in countless conference rooms filled with anxiety as carefully laid plans crumbled, leaving me uncertain of the path forward. In those moments, my family—both by blood and by choice—stepped up in remarkable ways, helping me stay clear-minded and focused, enabling me to find the resilience within to innovate.
My family has been a constant, consistent sounding board, enabling me to pivot creatively and transform challenges into unique opportunities. Entrepreneurship can be lonely and isolating, but my family has kept me grounded and deeply rooted in faith, walking the tightrope of belief alongside me and helping me move forward even when the path felt invisible. In moments where fear and uncertainty have felt like a dizzying abyss, it’s their love and belief in me that has surrounded and fueled my determination to keep going. I swear there’s a book in me—tales of unending adventures on this incredible journey. Life. And the beat goes on!
The Silver Lining in the Storm Clouds
Looking back, I realize these unforeseen challenges were the best business school I could have ever attended. They taught me:
1. Flexibility is more valuable than the perfect plan: No matter how detailed your strategy, always leave room for the unexpected.
2. Communication is your lifeline: Transparent, honest communication with your team and customers can turn a crisis into an opportunity to build trust.
3. Resilience is a team sport: Individual grit is admirable, but collective resilience is unbeatable.
4. Innovation thrives under pressure: Some of our best ideas emerged from our darkest moments.
5. Leadership is about empowerment: my role evolved from chief problem-solver to chief empowerer, allowing my team to shine.
This journey has been filled with lessons, resilience, and growth—and looking back, I wouldn’t trade it for the world. 😊
Oxo,
Layla-Joy
Founder of IYLIA.








I just finished reading your latest piece, and I wanted to say it was a truly wonderful read. Your reflections deeply resonate with me, and I find myself agreeing on so many points. Your words not only inspire but also bring comfort, reminding us of the invaluable support we receive from both our chosen family and the family we were born into. It’s heartwarming to see how those bonds uplift and empower you to keep moving forward.
Thank you for sharing these profound insights; it feels like reading a letter from an old friend. I look forward to following along as you continue this journey, and I hope you keep sharing your experiences and reflections. You’re making a real difference, and it’s a pleasure to support you.
Warm regards